Friday, October 5, 2007

Don't Be So Negative

I am a pretty negative person. I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have been told by my mom, husband, friends, strangers, "don't be so negative" & "you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar". My typical response is, with a roll of my eyes, "puh-lease. I am not negative, I am just realistic."

I wish I could change. I try to be more positive, or as I like to say, completely out of touch with reality. It's hard. I am quite in touch with reality.

When the doctor called today and sadly said, "it's negative", I wished I could change that too.

We're sad, but we'll keep trying. Some way, sometime, maybe something magical will happen and I will become "positive".


That's a lot of shots.

13 comments:

Danica said...

Ahh, shoot. You are so amazing for going through everything and putting yourself on the line just to try, so be proud. I'm sorry and hope you're doing okay. I'll talk to you soon and you guys are in my prayers all the time!

The Bundys said...

Dang! Ive been wondering how you were doing. I would be really, REALLY negative if i were you. You are such a trooper. Go ahead and be negative...i give you permission.

The Romneys said...

Blast! I'm sorry to hear that this round didn't work. You guys are great and I know that it will all work out somehow. You're in our prayers.

Kati said...

Sara...I am so very sorry. I can't imagine how much this must hurt right now. You have been so amazing through all of this. NEGATIVE is allowed for you today....and the next and the next. You are going to get a baby. Your Heavenly Father loves you and will bless you for your patience, love and faith in the Gospel. I am so sorry. I love you.
Kati

Dani said...

oh man... I'm sorry guys.

Genevieve said...

Oh Sara... I'm so sorry guys. You're still in our prayers and we think you guys are amazing and such a great example of patience and faith. We love you!

Jacob said...

Sorry to hear the news. You are in our prayers.
-Jacob and Jennifer Harmon

Andrea said...

Isaac and Sara, I'm so so sorry. That totally sucks. You have been and will continue to be in our prayers.
--The Cards

April said...

Dang - that IS a lot of shots! You are so brave. I'm so sorry it didn't work. It will soon and you'll be saying "these kids are driving me nuts!". I promise :)

Juliann said...

Sigh. . . you're probably feeling frustration and disappointment and emotional exhaustion and a number of other things and those feelings are completely valid. . . but don't give up hope. You'll need hope for the next go-round.

Chelsea said...

Im sorry guys! You are pretty freakin positive if you ask me!

Michelle said...

I'm so sorry to hear that =( I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are.
Love you!

katherine said...

keep your chin up & hang in there. i am with April too, soon enough you will be saying, "these kids are driving me crazy!" oh & remember you have a lot of fans here in the slc who are cheering you on & praying for you too.